A disastrous vacation day. what do you think?
March 26, 2009 by admin
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ironchef8766 asked:
Please read everything so you understand what I need advice for! I am 16 and this summer we went to the Poconos Mountains in Pennsylvania and we went rafting. I was with my brother and 3 of my cousin(3 guys and 1 girl altogether) My brother and guy cousin are 2 yrs older than me, my girl cousin is 7 months older and my other guy cousin is 4 yrs older than me. When we starting rowing and going in the water I wasn’t really rowing properly. It was really hard for me to get the technique going but I was trying. My 2 guy cousins started to say that I wasn’t rowing properly and stuff like that, they were really saying it in a discouraging way. Then eventually I got really mad and told my guy cousin to Shutup like 3 times. My girl cousin didn’t bother me at all because she was quiet due to the way I was on the trip. Then the trip got kinda awkward for me. I really was in a mad mood and I felt really sad that people kept yelling at me and they thought I wasn’t trying. I actually was trying and they just didn’t understand but they kept saying stuff to me. I also was quiet during the trip and didn’t want to talk to anyone because of the way they made me feel. Eventually one of the people who was charge came into our raft because she said we weren’t doing good at all. The fact that I was in a mad mood the whole trip (about 2-3 hours) really makes me sad. But I couldn’t help the way I acted, I was just degraded so badly… Also my girl cousin knows another girl really well. We both like each other very much(not the girl cousin on the trip) I am afraid my girl cousin would tell her about the way I was on the trip, and that would change the way the girl who likes me feels about me.. Besides this what do you People think about this? Who is the victim, me or everyone else on the trip? After the trip, my 2 guy cousins told my mom about how I was on the trip, they said I was quiet, not following instructions and being bad. Well?? I was trying, I was quiet because my cousins acted like jackasses and I was bad because they were bad to me. Alsoo lastly, how do you think I should act in the future If I get into these types of situations? I know I could’ve acted differently and I would have if I gone on the trip later. Please give me some good advice. Thanks!
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Please read everything so you understand what I need advice for! I am 16 and this summer we went to the Poconos Mountains in Pennsylvania and we went rafting. I was with my brother and 3 of my cousin(3 guys and 1 girl altogether) My brother and guy cousin are 2 yrs older than me, my girl cousin is 7 months older and my other guy cousin is 4 yrs older than me. When we starting rowing and going in the water I wasn’t really rowing properly. It was really hard for me to get the technique going but I was trying. My 2 guy cousins started to say that I wasn’t rowing properly and stuff like that, they were really saying it in a discouraging way. Then eventually I got really mad and told my guy cousin to Shutup like 3 times. My girl cousin didn’t bother me at all because she was quiet due to the way I was on the trip. Then the trip got kinda awkward for me. I really was in a mad mood and I felt really sad that people kept yelling at me and they thought I wasn’t trying. I actually was trying and they just didn’t understand but they kept saying stuff to me. I also was quiet during the trip and didn’t want to talk to anyone because of the way they made me feel. Eventually one of the people who was charge came into our raft because she said we weren’t doing good at all. The fact that I was in a mad mood the whole trip (about 2-3 hours) really makes me sad. But I couldn’t help the way I acted, I was just degraded so badly… Also my girl cousin knows another girl really well. We both like each other very much(not the girl cousin on the trip) I am afraid my girl cousin would tell her about the way I was on the trip, and that would change the way the girl who likes me feels about me.. Besides this what do you People think about this? Who is the victim, me or everyone else on the trip? After the trip, my 2 guy cousins told my mom about how I was on the trip, they said I was quiet, not following instructions and being bad. Well?? I was trying, I was quiet because my cousins acted like jackasses and I was bad because they were bad to me. Alsoo lastly, how do you think I should act in the future If I get into these types of situations? I know I could’ve acted differently and I would have if I gone on the trip later. Please give me some good advice. Thanks!
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